In this light, i want to catch upon the topic 'fear'. so what is fear? don't people who are really brave get afraid, or for that matter of fact, even the most confident person has fears. i guess that what makes us 'warm blooded' humans. And the worst of the all fear, is the fear of hurting someone you love? so my question to you, is there a way out? because after all fear makes us weak, and who in the world would call themselves one!!!!
The way I deal with such a fear is by making sure that i love the person more, and more, and more, so that even if i ever hurt them, in the wake of those love the, wound, would hurt less.
Cherios
There's a line from Batman about fear that seemed to help me at times... don't shy away or hate your fears. Instead, try to acknowledge them, and respect them.
ReplyDeleteIf this method to tackle fear works for you, then it works for you. In situations where this method may not seem to work out, Time may come in handy. It's (almost) a sure shot remedy to heal all wounds, but like everything in the world, that too isn't perfect.
There is one little point that I somewhat disagree with you - and most of the world too. Fear does not make us weak; it is one of the many complex things that make us human. That, ultimately, can be our greatest strength... but then again, humans have been known to make this very trait of theirs their biggest weakness too.
Don't know if any of that answered the questions you asked, but I do hope it did. Cheers...
answered sort of!!!! and not practical (as proved by inability of millions to make fear their greatest strength)!!!! but i always respect...ones point of view and opnions!!!
ReplyDelete2nd......i am only talkin abt the fear of hurting ur love one.......and time doesnt heal anything!!!!.....it just makes u forget.....healin is having peace....thats either happens by forgiveness or a more cruel way...revenge!!!!
Scarecrow kicks ass. If there are Batman lovers reading this and they haven't read Arkham Asylum. They must! :D
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